Valentine’s Day! Very special for so many people, big day for businesses, everybody is going wild buying gifts on this commercialized day, trying to impress their loved ones. They go crazy looking for the perfect gift to express the profound love that runs through their veins and makes them be madly in love... but is never enough.
For those who are truly in love, those who think they live for that loved one, that other one who is never going to fail you, who is never going to abandon you, who is never going to stop loving you because they feel exactly as you do, because they demonstrate it every day; you think they sincerely love you.
But I want to share a really good lesson life has taught me: no love is everlasting; no love is so true. There could be an exception, like really close family, but at the end, nothing is so sure. When you are truly in love you feel like nothing else in this world matters but your relationship with that person. You really feel secure and complete because that person complements you in a way nobody does; they fill up your spirit and bring happiness to your soul. And then, something happens and you learn, or you don’t; and you stay or you leave; and you go over and over again.
In essence, it’s all just learning experiences. Every relationship is a special and unique ingredient to the ultimate recipe of our life. You start cooking with those ingredients as your foundation, and it tastes so good, you think there can never be something as good and you decide to keep that recipe for life. But then, you meet somebody that makes it different, and you taste it, and it tastes so much better! So you decide to change, and the learning process never stops because there will never be something as finished or as perfect; nothing will get to the point where it doesn’t need anything else. There is always going to be space for more.
So at the end of the day, you are left with what feels like perfection and security at the moment…and you know is not going to be there forever, but you’re so glad is there for you now.
: ) I think you write GREATTT!! att, randi! : )
ReplyDelete"... nothing will get to the point where it doesn’t need anything else." - Except for my stepdads Jumbalaya! It's delicious.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you here, Janice :] It's all learning experiences. I wish I could be with a number of people, even though I know it might not last with any of them, simply for the experience.
"...you know is not going to be there forever, but you’re so glad is there for you now." - Amen. :]
:) You totally get me Alex! It's hard to find a young guy that understands my point of view !
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